Hi there,
I just was in January in Paki visiting the home of Khansab Dildar Hussain.
He is amazing, and I highly recommend the trip to England- it's shorter than the trip to paki!
I was visiting there with his American disciple Amena, who I have taken lessons with.
She is the first woman tabla nawaz in pakistan, breaking new ground in the world of women there,
and tabla nawaz for the Californian Qawwali group Fanna-fi-Allah,
http://www.fanna-fi-allah.com Dildar is humble and an amazing teacher and his sons Israr and Abrar also teach quite well.
You are right that trying to learn from video and recording is no comparison to direct transmission.
Be aware that he is used to people taking notes, however he learned all from memory and by sound,
and it is highly advisable to bring a good recording device to not have to try and write it all while he's there.
It is also nice to see if you can encourage him to bust out, he doesn't play as regularly anymore.
Gift giving is part of the culture including money, don't be shy to shower him in bills during a rocking solo!
I'm not sure how the setup is in the uk, in his home i think it was not as formal, lessons are more regular in the uk.
you can see pics of the family at my page myspace.com/xylemita
did you call Khansab?
if you have figured out how to call him in pakistan please let me know,
i have been trying to figure out the international codes and have not been able to dial correctly
and his son has been concerned that i don't call back. please email me at
xylemita@gmail.com, thanks.
their family is very generous and caring for tabla students,
i look forward to when i may see them again.
In the meantime, I practice.
You say you play qawwali in the states?
In traditional form and with what teachers, if any?
cheers, and best wishes to you
xy